“How’s homeschooling going?”
Three days in, and already I’ve been asked this question several times. My answer: not sure.
If I remain positive and
objective, it would appear we’ve already made progress despite lack of official
curriculum. Atlas is a proficient
writer, and enjoys doing it. He’s
spent more time than I ever dreamed of doing math problems and multiplication drills. A half hour here and a half hour there throughout the day add up quickly. We’ve read three Roald Dahl (The BFG, Esio Trot and George’s Marvelous Medicine) books that the children adored and several other
picture books.
On an emotional level I’m all
over the place. There are moments
when I swear there is no a chance I can go on one more minute. For instance after we left our neighbors
house for a coffee/playdate and Zander threw a punching-name
calling-pushing-screaming tantrum that went on for nearly 45 minutes after we
got home. Simultaneously, asked
Atlas to continue on the math work we’d started prior to leaving and he got
sassy. I’ve never been good at
multi-tasking when someone is screaming at me and this was no exception. I swore I was done right then. But, the moments when we are all three
working at the table on different projects or discussing real ideas or
listening to Atlas read his page long “biography” on his brother or reading
together for an hour straight on the couch; in these moments I am more sure
about the importance and fabulousness of what I am doing than just about
anything else in the world.
My need to take each day,
moment by moment is eminent.
Breathing and remembering that in a year I will probably laugh at
whatever makes me furious now is crucial to homeschool survival. The moments
when I can laugh are moments when we all
win.
Here is an example of one of
those winning moments I just had:
Atlas was at work at the
table picking out another science experiment to complete. Zander went to the bathroom to fill his
water cup to get a drink. After a
few minutes passed I went to check on Zander and found a soaked towel, water
sprayed all over the mirror and the sink full. “I’m doing science experiments. I put the water up my nose and then I can spit it out.”